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mekyria ([personal profile] mekyria) wrote2013-03-25 01:28 pm
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Conversation at work

During informatl talk about our weekend I mentioned how I saved up for an appartment, but am currently waiting to see how things work out with Mr.R. Mr. Gnome said:

'well, you can choose between being a strong, independent woman and buying your own place, or a relationship'

me: *stunned silence* (I know he is saying this to provoke me)

him:'My wife held on to her rental appartment for seven years after we moved in together before she finally let go'

me:'your wife and I are very different people. I am from the generation that wants it all. I don't see why I can't be a strong independent woman while being in a loving relationship.'

[identity profile] kinadancer.livejournal.com 2013-03-25 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Good for you.

[identity profile] mekyria.livejournal.com 2013-03-25 03:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't get it. Nobody ever says' 'he was such a strong independent man, but once he met his wife he turned into a codependent sissy boy'

[identity profile] ikaiya.livejournal.com 2013-03-26 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Well..... I have this male co-worker.... Never met him before he got married....But OMG codependent sissy boy.

[identity profile] misspotsitt.livejournal.com 2013-03-25 03:47 pm (UTC)(link)
People are just so bloody weird!