Slovenia

Jun. 4th, 2026 10:38 am
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Slovenia is amazing!

It's half the size of the Netherlands and only has 1.8 million inhabitants, so every American depiction of a small European country sort of applies.

 

They do have an airport, but not reliable public transportation to get from the airport to the city. 
They have a lovely rustic medieval capitol, that you can sight see in 2 hours on foot. Very, very beautiful, lots of green, romantic buildings and town square with a statue of their famous poet who wrote an anthem about the power of love and being good to each other. 

My keynote was the opening on Tuesday morning, and we had the luck of having a full house. My talk was fine, I thanked the organization and went back to airport. 

Today I'm working on the training material fora training on the 16th and the 30th, and I look forward to finishing developing this course and putting it into action. 
 

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Most of my work revolves around an awareness toolkit that lives on an ancient on premise Confluence page. 

The Confluence people need to keep their head above water and changed their payment plan, in such a way that maintaining the space is super expensive. Plus we already have another Confluence space for our company, so it sounds like an easy fix.

Except the Toolkit is meant to be accessible by people who work at universities. They do not have a SURF account. Which means I have to make the toolkit open to the public.

Except institutions shared examples of their materials and campaigns in a closed of environment. So I can't move those to a public space

Except the visuals we made with draw.io have to go, because I am apparently the only person using it and it costs 6500 euro a year.

Except I currently have no editing rights in the new environment (why?) and it is suuuuuper slow

Except creating new navigation to replace the old navigation makes it look like a nineties website


This is giving me headaches, I created a ticket and hope all of this will be fixed tomorrow. 
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The graphic designer made a color scheme for a process model and it's a perfect match to one of my favorite A'kai silk veils ever: tropical sunset.

I need to make this an Easter egg in the awareness toolkit.




Costumes

Sep. 17th, 2024 08:55 am
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Despite deciding to no longer do workshops and hired performances, I could not resist buying another costume. Because it was a steal and it has gorgeous beading and I think I can make adjustments and turn it into a more cabaret feel dress. It was mentioned as a saidi dress with wide sleeves, regular round neckline and gold flower and flourish type of beading. Straight skirt with two side slits, but I figure if I can add gussets to the slits it will be nice and swirly when dancing. And I can wear my own bra underneath, so I suspect it to be comfortable.

we did a pretty good rehearsal Saturday with the group, tonight is sewing night at my place with two people and then it's fowards to performing in an open stage/hafla situation on november 2th. We'll see how that works out, we're doing electro shaabi and it's a bit out of our comfort zone but really fun. We're wearing silver pants and silver shirts tied over a purple decorated bra and with a decorated purple hipwrap/belt. Accents are round broche type of things that look like rhinestones but are plastic. Will post pictures on social media if we make progress tonight.

weight wise I'm not happy but food wise I think I'm on the right track so let's leave it at that and just have fun on stage.

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We've done okay for the past ten days, getting in a rhythm at home. Work is barely getting done between taking care of the kids and the dog but they're not expecting us to make a full day of work.

The rules are getting tighter every three days or so, depending on the numbers and how the spread of the virus is developing. It appears that it is worldwide the same thing:
- not so strict ruls
- people going out in droves, endangering each other
- stricter rules
- people still ignoring stricter rules
- fines

We're currently at not going outside unless absolutely needed. Stay 1.5 meter (6 feet?) away from other people AT ALL TIME. All meetings and gatherings are off until at least june 1th.

I went to the supermarket yesterday. Upon arrival there are wipes and gloves to clean the cart handle and protect yourself. Then the nearly impossible task of staying 6ft away from other people while shopping. During my time there, a message was played reminding everyone to keep a distance and the other rules. At the check-out, there were lines made with tape on the floor, signalling the 6ft distance when you queue. The cashier is behind a flap of see through plastic and wears gloves, we are encouraged to not use cash at the register. It is kind of crazy, but necessary. The next week will tell if the IC's will overflow or not.

Something a lot of people haven't grasped is that in the next two years, IC capacity need to be managed. If all the beds are filled with COVID patients, they can't help car crash victims, heart attacks, and other things.

We're doing video calls with family and friends to stay connected. Tomorrow I'm starting with an online streaming belly dance class through Zoom, and five of my students look forward to the class. It's not that we don't have things to do at home, but I like to go out, spend time with friends and do fun stuff together. It's quite a luxury for us that we can both work from home and we still get paid. Our energy and water bill will be through the roof, but we're not spending money on gas.

We have to go out three times a day to walk the dog. it's surprising how quiet the world is. Are the birds getting bolder or is it just me? When there are less people outside, animals get out of hiding more often. Last week there were a lot of people outside for recreation but that is also coming to a halt. It is allowed to go outside for a run or a walk, if you stay 6ft from other people. In reality this is very, very hard. Maybe the next rule is limiting recreational use too? They already closed parking at beaches and forests, as it was too busy to maintain a distance. It is also not allowed to bring your children shopping unless there is no other possibility. Supermarkets have opened up a special hour for the elderly so they can shop without coming into contact with the younger population.

Some tangible ways that this situation affects us: we booked a holiday home for a week in May, which has to be cancelled. I got booked for two performances that can't happen, E was rehearsing for performances with the Big Band and orchestra's. We booked belly dance workshops with my troupe.  We're lucky though because those are things we can go without. It's much harder to not see my mother every week, or visit the Nonna and Nonno in Katwijk.

On the 6th of April, we will hear if schools can be reopened. Final exams have been cancelled by schools but if the schools are open it will be easier for parents to be productive when working from home. We're facing a huge recession and we don't know what will happen next. We can make it on one salary if we need to, for a while at least.

To end in a positive note, we're all healthy and have enough food, a roof over our heads and enough ideas to keep us busy. It's like running a 21 day parenthood marathon and the kids and E are the best people to spend it with.

Stay safe every one!
 

 


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My dance mom went in for breastcancer surgery last week. She send a message on Monday that she was at home, recovering and considering everything she was doing okay. They removed one breast and two lymphnodes. Yesterday she let us know that the lymph nodes weren’t ‘clean’ and that she has to consult the specialist on what’s next. Probably chemo and more scans. She tries to stay positive but has a hard time.

She is a rather private person and has only told a couple of her closest dance friends. But she is widely known in our dance community by all of my dance friends. The dance friends who try to pick dates to meet up, and the ones I usually talk about what’s up and how we’re doing. I don’t want to tell them about L because I respect her choice to keep her illness and treatment private. People mean well but she doesn’t want flowers, cards, visits or phone calls. But it is hard to not tell my closest dance friends that I can’t meet them because I want to visit her.

I hope the treatment she’s getting will help her overcome her cancer and there won’t be anything to talk about in a year or so. In the meantime, it sucks and I am so scared of losing her. She was my dance mentor for over six years, we went on tours together, shared so much of the ups and downs in our lives. She’s 53 and way too young to have her story end here. 
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 Typed in ‘corona’ in Spotify and one of the hits was ‘the coronavirus and masturbation’

stepping away from my phone now
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Probably as was to be expected, it was fun, exciting and it enden up not being a masterpiece but quite nice. 
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Someone posted a picture of a Egyptian Halloween costume with the statement that the ancient pose represents Egypt in the BELLY DANCE MATTERS- A group dedicated to dance discussion group

Native Arab people got angry

Moderator closed the thread and suggested people who are interested in Pharaonic dance to read Shira's webpage.

Original poster fled from the group

Ha, the good old times of being wrong on the internet!
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I wanted to make a wonderwoman costume but it didn’t happen. Our office party is Friday abd the thene is super heroes. It’s quite broad, for example I heard someone wanted to dress up as our supercomputer, or Cupido (hero of lovers) or their mother. Indecided that my purple velvet belly dance dress with gold isis wings looks kind of like a super hero. I bought a cheap mask that I am decorating tonight with gold glitter and rhinestones.

but if someone asks me who I am, what would you reply?

Secura, saves your IT system with her gold Wings of Justice?


btw I have a bit of leftover fabric that I am using to make the necklineof the dress more decent. After al, it’s an afgice party and Dina bra’s are an aqcuired taste 
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we’re one month in and this week we’re doing the first exam. We officially have 48 hours after starting an exam to finish it, allowing for a bit of flexibility. I started this evening and finished in about one and a half hour. It was okay, some things coyld be googled and others had to be calculated or reasoned. My final score was 85%, and I was pleased with my result. My fellow student then posted his 98% score

Still pleased with myself 😃

this counts for 60% of my final mark. 20% is smart cases (a small test at the end of every nodule) and next week we get our first assignment or capstone project. That also counts as 20%

is it easy to pass? No, it is not. But there are several methods tou can use to get a good grade. The first one is study hard and do everything from the top of your head. The second one is use the extra time of the exam to search for the correct answer. It won’t save you as many of the answers can’t be searched. They are examples of accounting where you have to make a decision. I am confident that with enough effort, I can consistently get good enough grades to receive a degree after a year. The biggest problem is sticking with the program and consistently putting the time in.

speaking of time, tomorrow we’re going on a short four days away to a local swimmingpool/themepark/holiday house thing with my mother and Little Brother. Let the fun begin!

Relax

Jun. 3rd, 2019 01:20 pm
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Last week was kind of stressful due to all the things that needed to be done and ascencion day cutting the week short. Intold my manager that I was leaving and he tried to make me a counter offer. Sweet but no thanks. The contract for the new job was signed on Wednesday. Unfortunately my new salary is exactly the same as my old salary. Due to slight changes in pension and such my netto salary will be a little bit higher than what I am used to, and there is room to grow so that’s good.  

I am a bit angry at E for being away so much last week. He was away three nights, rehearsal on saturday between 11.00-17.00 and he had a stomach flu thing on Sunday. It felt like I had to do a lot of thibgs on my own instead of doing fun things as a family. 

Amélie is behind in her growth so a lactation consultant dropped by to see how she feeds and gave us a new schedule. I would love to not having to pump milk when I start my new job, and I really would like to get more sleep. She currently feeds at 19.00,24.00,03.00,06.00,10.00,12.00,16.00. Things could be worse but things could be so much better as well! Bottle fed children are supposed to drink 4 bottles of 200ml at her age. A doesn’t understand eating solids. She is enjoying sitting with us at the table and playing with her spoon and her food.

We received the information for when Eliza is going to school in novenber. She’s so big and sassy, I love having her around and I love having her experience school and make new friends. Mixed feelings, but all good. 




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 Yesterday was a shitty day at work. We're in a process to iplement a new social law, meaning we have to get infooamtion from us to other public organisations starting 1 january 2020. And it is important that it happens fast and accurate. 

I advised on the secure way to do this, and now our ministry is giving us shit for being the odd one out, wanting to do things better and different. I began doubting myself. Looked back at my work. Nope, pretty sure that mailing highly classified personal data to other organisations is not AVG proof. Even if we're using several mail standards to heighten security. Too much risk for a process like this. 

We are asked to write an 'appreciative' (don't let the name fool you) essentially meaning we have to write an official memo explaining why we are against 'secure email' as it is called. 

 

The implication being that it appears that we are the only ZBO who has an issue with 'Secure email'and all the other ZBO's are using it. Either we are stubborn know it alls or the standard for 'secure email' is too low and all the other ZBO's need to alter their course. This also ramped up my anxiety.

But! I thought about a plan to get there. This has, ofcourse, all be delivered and finished in a week. A week where I am not in the office on Monday (home with the kids), Thursday (holiday) and Friday (my mother has other arangements so I am home with the kids). I'm at work now, feeling okay-ish. 

I just finished the questionaires of my assessment and I am pretty sure that I did well. This weekend I am preparing for the roleplaying/ real life cases that we're doing on Monday. I got a book from the library that walks me through the different steps and gives pointers and I am going to try a couple of cases with E. I am afraid that I will 'fail' the roleplaying part because I sort of failed seven years ago at a similar assessment. 

I learned so much since then, got some experience under my belt and I have held a similar type job for seven years so I probably don't suck at it. But I am still afraid that my people skills suck. 
 

delay

May. 17th, 2019 12:01 pm
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Received an email that they can't get back to me before the weekend about the job interview last Wednesday. Boo. 


I take it as a positive note: if they thought I wouldn't be a good fit, they would have told me by now. On the downside, now I will be anxious all weekend because I want to know. In order to keep my mind busy I started with the first couple of modules from the MBA. I am learning how the stock market works. Very enlightening. Never knew there were so many different types of stocks and bonds and what they do for a company. 

Clever as they are, they put a gaming element into the course. I am revisiting the courses because  I want to score 100% on the capstone test (you can retake as often as you want, highest sore remains). In addition I also have to do a bit of translating as accounting lingo in Dutch is different from the USA. A bond is an 'obligaat', a stock is a 'aandeel' and so forth. it keeps me busy! I am getting a head start because I have a holiday planned after Pentacost, and that is also the week of the accounting exam. 
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 Because when I sell a costume, I feel the need to window shop for new costumes

1. this Multi color fringe dress on Dahlal. It's even affordable! 
https://www.dahlal.com/paillette-fringe-beledi-dress-black-gold-multi-color-by-rising-stars/


2. Eman Zaki Paisly dress on Bellydance boutique .uk
https://www.bellydanceboutique.co.uk/shop/belly-dance-costumes/belly-dance-costume-teal-temptation-by-eman-zaki/

3. 3 piece baladi dress in aqua
https://ameraspalace.com.au/online-shop/awesome-aqua-3-piece-baladi-dress/

4. sequin beledi dress -sheherazade import
http://scheherezadeimports.com/items/dresses-and-gowns/list.htm



feel free to add links to gorgeous costumes!

BDBA

Feb. 20th, 2019 04:24 pm
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 I am still a teacher at the BDBA! And I started a couple of courses but never finished and published them, so that is next on my to do list. 

You know, the 'getting back to work' to do list. Like, everything I stopped doing in September is still waiting and lying around for me to pick up after being away for six months. Funny how that works. 

Ayway, I checked my dashboard and there are so many teachers and courses, that I doubt people can find the course they want to find in all this. So I am creating a couple of cheaper courses that help people deal with a specific problem for a tenner and see how that works.
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 We're watching the Grimm series on Netflix which is quite enjoyable. They try to make German sound cool by calling supernatural beings by their 'German name'.

The actors probably took language classes or something but I am glad that we have subtitles because I often don't understand the German because of the pronunciation. Is this how Americans speak german (and French, some scenes are in French)?

 
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 I watched some Ted talks about health and sugar, and decided to give up sugar for a week. Like, a week is manageable, right? 

Day two so far and I have had a sugar withdrawal headache yesterday and today. This is bad. I'm costuming to take my mind of things and drinking lots of water, hope that it will reside in the next couple of days. I am such a sugar addict. Plus it is incredible hard to buy stuff without added sugar. Managed so far, I swapped my usual lunch with sandwiches to a bowl of home made vegetable soup so no carbs in there either. Eating my regular breakfast (oatmeal porridge with a bit of fruit) and dinner, snacks are fruit, vegetables and almonds if needed. So far, so good. 

grandma

Jul. 10th, 2018 12:15 pm
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 My grandma fell and broke her hip last week, as old people do.She was Lucky to not have broken anything up until this point. At the hospital they operated her hip and she seems to recovering well. I was wondering if they would operate on her as she's 104 years old, so the chances of her getting mobility back are slim. All the care is covered by public health care so we don't worry about the cost, just that grandma herself is tired of living for a couple of years now.

Her short term memory is gone due to dementia but she seems to be okay and she was moved to a recovering facility yesterday. I want to visit her Friday before we leave for our two week holiday. She might get better or get worse, we don't know. If she passes away during our holiday I want to be at the funeral so we'll go back home sooner than expected.

In other news, we are referring to our future baby as 'your sister' to Eliza and she's picking it up and running with it. The daycare posted some pictures of her where she looks so mature, it's almost scary. Not 'twenty years old' mature, less toddler and more preschool mature. Her limbs are longer, she shed her baby fat and she's making more jokes and clever remarks. She'll be almost three when her sister is born.

Grandama is 104 and Eliza is 2,5. That is three generations of age difference. I can't even imagine what it's like to be so old that everyone you knew is dead or also really old.

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