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This has been a hard week, partly because I work hard all day and spend the nights partying with my friends. My life is just sooooo hard, you know? And when I say party, I mean that my intermediate students had a get together with couscous, salads and tea on Tuesday where they presented me with presents to thank me for being their teacher. Awwwwww!!! I'll post a picture of the bicycle bags they gave me to replace the old run down bags I have now when I have them installed.

Wednesday was FaKyMa. We did an hour of having dinner and catching up, and two hours of practicing Khaleegy, melaya leff, our Enchanted Gardens and our drum solo choreography. For someone who feels like she isn't doing much with dance these days, this week looks pretty full with dance activities.

Thursday night I travelled to a small town near Arnhem with Annelies, one of my intermediate student whos is also a friend. For my birthday she gave me an Arabic cooking workshop. A small Arabic looking women in her forties welcomed us into her spacious professional kitchen. the kitchen seamlessly flowed into a lounge area with rugs, pillows and the swirly shiny trays that are so common in the Middle-East. The group consisted out of ten people, mostly middle aged women. Two guys: Hans, husband to Marianne who looked sweet and quiet, and Jeroen, a 2.07 m tall twenty something boy who came with his controlfreak loudmouth mother.

The teacher was fara, who emigrated to the Netherlands from Iraq twenty years ago with her family. She had been in catering ever since and recently added the workshops as an extra mean of income. She is a no-nonsense tiny women, muttering to herself and being everywhere at once in the kitchen.

We made six dishes in total with the group, Annelies and I were in charge of the salad. We finished early so we jumped into doing stuff for the baklava too, because OMG baklava! I haven't gotten the recipy sheets yet but it was all delicious. There was a tajine dish with eight vegetables and lamb, chicken with olives, the potato olive salad,  bulgur (type of Turkish cooked wheat), lentil soup, baklava and minced meat rolled up in slices of eggplant with tomato sauce.

It was suprisingly easy to make these dishes, I think everything was done in about two hours. The soup and salad are quick and easy to make, or to prepare in advance. We also received a masterclass on What Makes Baklava Delicious. Turns out that cheap baklava is made with low quality nuts and too much sirup, increasing the weight exponentially with the syrup so they can charge more. Baklava is like the English word for cookie: there are many types and styles of baklava, some with nuts, others without. We made baklava with the stringy dough, fileld with cream and mozzarella and topped with nuts and ate it while it was still warm. it was absolutely breathtaking, not too sweet but a perfect mix between crunchy and sweet with the taste of rosewater in the background.

I highly recommend taking a workshop to learn more about Arabic food, as I have previous not gotten further then making coucous salad, couscous with vegetables and chicken, and bread with baba ganoush/hummus. The tricks that I learned where that you have to find a decent Arabic super market and get a good source for the herbmix and you are all set. For the baklava, I can get all the ingredients from the shop next door* so I might try it next time I want to make a desert.

Oh, and did not disclose the fact that I was a bellydancer during the worksop. busy controlfreak mother refered to bellydancing in a joking fashion several times during the night, at which point I averted my eyes and laughed along. Didn't feel like it was the right time and place.

*I live in a street filled with Turkish supermarkets and kebab shops. I live in bellydancer heaven
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I was writing the title and thought:'no wonder I am tired after the weekend'. I'll keep it short and to the point:

Ice skating: I took friday off and mr.R. and me went outdoor ice skating. It was harder with all the bumps and stuff, but also way more fun because we were outside :-) here's a picture:


We stayed in afterwards, drinking hot chocolate, watching 'Over the hedge' and cuddling underneath a fleece blanket.

Meeting the family: Saturday mr.R. remember that his niece turned fifteen. We visited his family, meaning that I met his parents and siblings. When I am with R. I don't notice the age gap, but the party was a reminder that we are a fair bit apart in age. His parents are seventy-ish and his siblings are closing in on fifty. It was nice though, seeing where he comes from.

Chinese light festival: we went to Rotterdam for the Chinese light festival afterwards, something I've been looking forward to because: colorful bright lights! Cute animals! It was all that and R. was also excited so we wandered around in winter wonderland until we got tired.

Student recital: yep, the biannual student recital with my students! I edited all the music and created seperate set lists, dragged a ton of costume items with me, rehearsed for a couple of hours and put on a good show. Only three beginners showed up for the recital, two are determinee to continue with the classes. Yay! It was the biggest recital so far, since we had four short choreo's per group made by me, my intermediates also made four coreo's with help from me. They rocked the place.

Bonus: R. came to watch the recital and had drinks with us afterwards. We left to pick up a second hand IKEA tv thing in Vleuten, meaning that we did some driving around looking for the house, tried to fit it into his car, carried it up my stairs and assembled it. All in a peaceful and relaxed fashion, afterwards I put some of my favorite series and movies on his mediaplayer (am I the only one who knows hoe to download stuff nowadays?), we had tea and he went home. Except that he still had my backpack with phone and wallet in his car, meaning he returned as soon as I whatsapped him from my ipad. I now have my tv on a nice white cupboard with glass door, looking all sophisticated. My tv looks bigger and different from it's new location.

I spent the rest of last night sliding the glass door open and close, making star trek sounds.

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Thursday: went for a walk and lunch with my aunt and her dog. Enjoyed the fresh air and the sight if the Pyramid of Austerlitz, put up by Napoleon when he was conquering the Netherlands back in the day.

Friday: my dad came over and we painted the livingroom wall, added locks to three of the four doors, and drove our bikes for an hour trying to find a hardware store for a specific supply. It was nice though exhausting, by the end of the day I'm through talking about powertoos and bridge.

Saturday: went to Bussum to meet up with bd friends underneath a really, really big christmastree. We sung x-mas carols and ODed on chocolate. I stayed untill late, talking with Roos about the many, many ways we feel cheated by life and the things that make it worthwhile.

Sunday: travelled to Zaandam for a divorce celebration of another (dance) friend. We did a workshop in erotic massage that was a lot of fun. I hung out afterwards with her sisters and B., we went out for pizza, smoked shisha in a hookah lounge filled with 18 something Morroccan boys and traded tips on dating and sex between the girls. Feeling all metropolitan and worldly, even when I am sitting in the train with my fold away bike stowed underneath the seats.

Tomorrow:I'll travel to Leusden to go to the midnight Christmas service at my childhood church with my mom.

I am exhausted but happy.

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The last three days were all about parties. I am the kind of girl that can dance all night, yet fall asleep around 23.00. I don't like crowdeed places where the music is so loud you can't hear what the other person in saying. Every day had a different kind of party in store for me. 

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I had a wonderful weekend and I am grateful for being blessed with love, good health and good times.
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I have grossly neglected my websites in the past year(s), due to being Career Woman and all that. I did a quick update round, but it appears that the free wordpress.com websites have disappeared because I can't access them after I log in. The website states that ' I haven't gotten a blog yet, start here!'. Well, I have two, thank you very much, and I need to update at least one of them so GIVE ME MY BLOG BACK ALREADY.

This only proves how little you can trust free cloud services like wordpress.com, even though they are very nice and trustworthy in general. Glad that I host my bellydance website on a server in the Netherlands, granting me full control. The reason why I updated my website is because I was called by a lady for a booking next Thursday and I realized that I hadn't updated my online calendar for a while. I did ofcourse update my website earlier this year to reflect the VAT going up from 19% to 21%.

Next week is insane: I'm doing a (close to charity) gig with FaKyMa on wednesday in Zoetermeer, a christmasparty performance in Bussum on Thursday (party thrown by surgeons, they pay the standard deal without complaining. Yay!) and performing in the Stairway on Friday (It's a local club, quite famous with the general public, I'm doing full blown bellydance with veil and zills). Saturday I celebrate my birthday, woohoo!! Sunday is wedding dress shopping with [livejournal.com profile] ikaiya.

Talking about belly dance adminsitration, I should also sit down and make the bill for last semester's classes and the trial class in September. I could use the money for the Aziza Dreamcamp next year. I have HUGE first world problems, being that I am planning my holidays for 2013 and I have to choose between going to New York for the Belly Dance Theatrical Festival, or to Aziza's Dream Camp in Belgium.  Woe is me! *faints while holding her hand to her face*. Ranya and Anasma, or Aziza and Hisham? What Would Flisties Do?

I digress. I have to figure out how to get control back over the two public websites, being the event website for RonDom Buikdans and the troupe website for Sense of Bellydance. I'll start out by the wordpress faq, will post back on the result.

Oh god

Oct. 19th, 2012 11:29 pm
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I'm performing with a live band tomorrow to 'zourouni'. The only problem being that their complete setlist consists out of medium tempo songs and I prefer magencies, or something wth more clear defined rhythm changes. Especially for a ten minute perormance *freaks out*

Tomorrow there will be practicing. And also an unknown Turkish guy trying to put plaster board on my living room wall, something he told me he was going to do today but ended up not doing. Instead he put all the supplies in my livingroom and I had to put all my furniture to the side before going to work. Because...well... That's how Turkish men in my neighborhood do things. Planning is not an option. Things just happen when they are supposed to happen, inshalla.

Will practice tomorrow anyway, before going to a ballet performance in Amsterdam with Cookiehuhter. It is quite awesome, three pieces performed by the Scapino ballet. Oneof them is Carmen, one of my favorite ballets on account of it being about an independent gypsy woman and the beautiful music from Bizet.

One more thing: I came home and found a box of chocolate in my mailbox + an anonimous card stating 'I think you are sweet. The sweetest. Enjoy the chocolates, xoxo'. I love days that contain surprise chocolate

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I revisited a post that I made way, way back and that I can't find anymore. In short, this post is inspired by someone who gave me the 'advice' to buy a house in stead of rent. Because, you know, it's not as if that is a major decision or anything with big consequences. It got me thinking about our differences in how we view the world, and where they are coming from. I'll try not to rant or ramble too much.


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There you have it. Accept my choice to do things my way. Accept that people can be happy without owning a house, without a conventional relationship and with having a dream in their heart that you might find slightly ridiculous and childish. Maybe you are slightly envious because I am happy with who I am and where I am in life, or you are projecting your own discomfort or unhappiness on me. Don't. Life is too short.

Live long and prosper!
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We all have a bucket list filled with things we want to do, learn or experience. One of the items on my bucket list is 'dance the tango'. If you have seen scent of a woman, you know why. Through my university IT contacts I know Frank, who gave me two sailing classes and who happens to be a trained ballet dancer (long, long time ago) and has been dancing the tango for 6 years now. And his hometown had a tango festival offering workshops for complete beginners (that would be me).

I took the train to Haarlem yesterday straight from work and we met at the station, walking to the antique mirror tent that is the center of the festival. It is quite an amazing place: wooden floors, seats on the sides, mirrors on the walls and beams and colorful draperies all around. There is the muted silence of people drawn inwards into a danceform that seems to get better as you get older, getting in touch with your own feeling and improvisation skills.


I have never danced the tango and I was glad that the workshop was for total beginners. And that Frank is good in taking the lead, as it makes a huge difference. I had a bit of trouble with releasing myself into his lead and stop thinking but overal it was very nice. We started out with a practice stance where we were far apart and during the workshop we adapted the stance to the 'tango hug', meaning leaning into eachother with the upper body. Frank and I are friends, it felt very pleasant to be so close to someone without actually being intimate. We had really good teachers, demonstrating clearly and correcting when neccesary.

We started by shifting our weight and adding pauses, then moved into adding a side step or a step forward/back. Then into two slightly more complicated step patterns that asked for some fancy footwork of the lady. I loved it,  doing the 'slowly sliding your foot over the lower leg of your partner' thing before moving on into a different pattern. I can see why so many people are fascinated by the tango. We grabbed a quick bite of dinner after the workshop and I sneakily managed to pay the bill while he was in the bathroom, startling him. He wass intrigued by my unpredictable behavior and had a hard time adapting to the idea of a woman buying him dinner. Men are funny like that.

After the workshop there were two performances: the first one a group of graduates from the conservatorium, who were great. They played classic tango music and they played it well, three girls ad two guys having a blast while being awesome musicians. And at the age of 25ish, I might add. The second performance was of Floras Negras, five women from Buenos Aires, singing tango music supperted by piano. Absolutely breathtaking performance, if you are into tango music or want to expand your musical horizon, listen to them! Frank was a perfect gentleman and walked me to my train. We said goodbye with a kiss on the cheek, and off I went. I don't have time to do weekly tango lessons, but it was a wonderful experience to get a taste of this beautiful dance form. Maybe some one time classes/workshops in Utrecht....

http://youtu.be/d5fg4_4dz1U

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Mar. 27th, 2012 01:39 pm
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With everything that's going on at my work, there is also fun stuff happening that I'd like to share. Otherwise I'll read my journal in a couple of years, thinking everything was about my work and such. The good thing is that there is still dance to be enjoyed, friends to hang out with and new stuff to learn and discover.

diving, Amsterdam, Oum Kolthoum, horse back riding... )
And in general news, people are happy with me at my work, so I expect that my contract will be prolonged in June. Right now I need the distraction of learning new things to keep me going. I notice that I don't have the energy to invest extra time in dance, next to the commitments that I already made. There are several festivals in the summer but the program made me go meh. I expect that my dance drive will return at the end of this year or at the start of 2013 but for now I'm more into exploring and learning other things.
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Yay for lazy Saturdays! I feel much beter then earlier this week, less tired and like I might actually be doing stuff right every once in a while.

I've been running for a while now, most of it on my own along the Amsterdam-Rijn canal. But I subscribed to the CPC run (City-Peer-City) in The Hague and run an oficial 5K tomorrow. The initial idea was that my brother and some friends were signing up too, we would run together. However, they somehow ALL managed to not subscribe in time and I'm the only one competent enough to read the website and fill in the webform. *cue unbelieving face here*

I'm starting at 11.30, will finish before 12.00 (fingers crossed, haven't had a good practice run in the past eight weeks).  I have no clue how this works and their website is down and probably will be down tomorrow morning too, I'll just show up in time, change, give my bag to the locker people and show up at the start. 

Later that day, when I traveled back and had a shower, we're celebrating the first birthday of Ronja, [livejournal.com profile] ikaiya's adorable daughter. I can't wait to see what Ikaiya baked for the occasion!

Somewhere in between I have to squeeze working on my concept of a Management Information Policy Plan that I need to deliver soon. March is an exciting month (read: I'm terrified) as I have three deliverabled that I need to sort of finish and send on it's way in the decision making proces, through our IT director, through te directors meeting, up to the I-council and to the Executive Board. 

O, and on account of my subletter I need to have a talk with her. We share the plates/cups, and they have al dissappeared last week and haven't showed up again. I suspect that she's keeping dirty dishes in her room, which could lead to critters/mice/rats. Also, not cool as we share and they are all mine. Otherwise things are smooth between us, we're both not a lot at home.
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Saturday was the day that the lovely Khalida drove all the way to Amersfoort to teach two workshops. I was rather bummed as the amount of people who subscribed were lower then I expected, but happy that we could have two workshops anyway. 

I arrived around 11.30 and went to the supermarket so I could provide everyone with water, mandarins and nuts during the breaks, put paper signs up outside and put the kettle on for mint tea. The first students showed up at 12.30 and the others came in soon afterwards. In all nine people signed up for the first workshop and four for the second. 

The pops, locks, shimmies and undulation  workshop was a revelation for many students, as Khalida is fabulous in breaking down moves and integrating them in solid and fun drills. The second workshop with wings was nice, as we had a small group and tons of space. It doesn't really matter how much space you have, when there are six people dancing around with Isis wings they will fill the room completely. Khalida gave us some really cool tips and moves (I'm so doing the zorro with my students later this semester!).

We all left happy and content, some students buying Khalida's dvds to take her awesomeness back home. It was so much fun to see K. again in real life, and I look forward to the next time. We'll meet again in Aachen in February and maybe at some workshops before that. Despite the low numbers I think my first time hosting workshops was a success. 
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I have never been to a clothing swap party before, and as I was running to the train on the dreary Wednesday morning, trying to hold onto my bag with badminton gear and two bags of clothes I was thinking to myself that attending a swap party tonight was probably  a bad idea. First of all, I don't need new clothes as I just went through my wardrobe with a tooth comb in order to declutter. Second, the girls would probably not be my size, and third, I doubted that they'd share my love for bold prints. However, I was one my way and set to try it at least once before passing up on the concept of swapping clothes with total strangers.
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I'm back from RAKS, a four day belly dance camp in leuven with flisties Artemisia, Khalida and Razia. It was so much fun, I love it! Shared a room with Sandra and I was a bit worried about getting along when we are both tired, but it was great. Actually the whole group was very focused, open and serious about the dance. On our way back home we spotted five rainbows, and I was reminded of our rainbow spotting for Nargis's event two months ago. Seems nature is giving me a rating system for BD events: I think five rainbows means it was excellent!

More on RAKS later, but it was fun to be there. I might do the Ava Fleming weekend in October too, but I have to figure out my schedule/finances for the rest of the year to see if it is humanly possible. 

I contacted the girl I interviewed last week and she like to move in per September the first, so I've made the contract + general rules for her so we can go over them tomorrow. Dad is dropping by tomorrow to finish the last plinths in the room and help me with some other stuff, I need to pick up my super secret info for my business bank account and pick up a package. In short, I asked my boss if I could get the whole day off instead of half the day as I intended. I also think I have a cavitiy in one of my back teeth, so I need to contact the dentist, I'll be at the orthodontist tomorrow for a regular check up so I'll ask them how that works.

Also, I received my first paycheck!!! *does a happy dance* Tonight I have Ben& Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Icecream for desert :) Here are the first pictures from RAKS:

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good day

Jul. 8th, 2011 12:31 am
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 Today started out as a bit of a surprise, as I didn't have anything planned. I made a last minute appointment with[livejournal.com profile] ikaiya to go shopping for some essentials. Basically all my clothes don't fit anymore, I seem to have lost more then I thought. Especially uncomfortable are bra's that don't fit anymore, so we went and got some stuff that would fit. We then ventured over to looking into clothes and I found myself a pair of flared jeans and some items that I could use for work and in general.

Another last minute appointment was Joyce, who needed my help assembling her Brimnes bed from IKEA. Joyce helped me with getting the second hand laminate floor and she is a dear long time friend and (twice) ex-colleague. We make a pretty good team, and we assembled the bed in her tiny bedroom. Our love for power tools know no boundaries, though I'm not sure other people should be in the vicinity when we're diy-ing. We needed duck tape and out of the box thinking to get everything in place, and right when I was about to take off, we decided to take some items back up to her upstairs storage room. And upstairs is where T. lives, who happens to be an ex-colleague AND my forum tech guy. We kind of got caught up talking, decided we didn't have dinner plans and that it was a good day to drink rosé in J.'s backyard.  So yeah, it was an unexpectedly fun day. When I drove back home I ran into a dear friend which was also fun, talked about getting together next Wednesday. I had plans to crawl behind my computer tonight so I could talk with [livejournal.com profile] swas , but I got a bit caught up in the moment today. 

Tomorrow I'm going to Amersfoort for dinner with Selma, a high-school friend :) That's two days in a row where I have a decent dinner, I'm on a roll!
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 I know, I also posted on Facebook, but lj is more personal :) Enjoy the day, I have a feeling that next year will be a very good year for you.

Love, 
Kyria
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 The dress rehearsal on Thursday as great, it's looking great! Here are two pictures taken earlier this week. Keep in mind that the jackets have flowing half-circle sleeves and we are holding chiffon handkerchiefs in the finished version. This is Roos, showing her jacket and the pants + skirt:Read more... )
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Video from RonDom  Buikdans isn't in yet and my own camera died on me last Saturday. Lili Abade posted this footage of our duet in Wageningen. It is a fun video and it really shows how much fun we had Saturday :) Thank you Lili!!

 
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The Dutch site is updated with an article about hotfix stones, the interview with Tribal Fusion group the Uzume is also online.

I also would like to congratulate the five dancers who graduated the 'pro bellydancer/teacher course' by Jamila in Eindhoven. Their theater piece 'Cascade' kept me on the edge of my seat and showed that all of them are excellent stage performers. One note: in the advertising the organiser claimed that the show would 'come to the public on a tour in several small theaters in Netherland and Belgium'. In reality, we had to travel over 2 hours to get to the nearest show (we started in Utrecht). If the organiser wants to expand her horizon and includes a venue somewhere in the center of the Netherlands, it would generate a lot of publicity and maybe more enrollments from dancers further away.
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happy new year everyone! May you get as close to your dreams as you can get in 2007 and your wishes will be fullfilled. Let there be sparkles, costumes and music to talk about, musea's and concerts to go to and fun to be had. :)
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Despite the gothic festival this weekend, I managed to finish the turkish vest yesterday evening. To be honest, most of the bands make music that make me cringe. I'm more of a gothic rock/folk/dead can dance girl then an electro/ebm/dark wave goth. Ataraxia and Gor also opened the festival by a performance in the Dom church, the medieval churchbuilding in the center of Utrecht.

We watched Omnia, Gor (which was a very nice suprise) and Ataraxia (who did something very avantgarde) again on friday evening. Saturday [livejournal.com profile] swas and Gunnar came over. We wanted to picknick in the park, but there was too much rain during the day. That didn't relly matter, we strolled through Utrecht, talked, ate something in the medieval garden next to the Dom (the cathedral). [livejournal.com profile] ikaiya had a three day tocket, but I decided that the line up wasn't that good to spend another 30 euro's on it. Besides, it was sold out (or so they say).

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[livejournal.com profile] swas also showed me the performance that I did on her wedding on utube (private view, so no, you can't see it!) and I think it is acceptable to put online. Not a ' OMG, what a fabulous dancer!' clip, but it shows my dancestyle. A lot of things have improved, but I'm still not satisfied with my arms. To flappy at times.

If I manage to figure out how to put it on youtube without getting the big chunky sqaures instead of the original high quality movie, I'll put it on my website.

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